Steward Ship
Developing A Love for Learning
Choosing to SEE
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I just finished the book by Mary Beth Chapman (singer and song writer Steven Curtis Chapman's wife) titled Choosing to SEE. In May of 2008, the Chapman's lost their 5 year old daughter in a tragic accident. Mary Beth tells their life story up to the day they lost their little girl and through the next 18 months or so after. She writes with such transparent honesty, and while their story is very sad, it is also filled with great hope. She says over and over again that she did not choose this and wishes she could push the rewind button, but also knows that the Lord works all things together for good and even through paralyzing grief they wish to accept the journey and "steward" their story well so that they can use what they've been through to bring others to Christ. It is an understatement to say that the Chapmans have a heart for orphans and adoption. They put their heart to action through the organization they started called Show Hope and have helped 2,500 families reach their financial needs by offering grants of $3-$4,000 per family. Our daughter and son - in - law were given one of these grants when they adopted our first grandson, Spencer Daniel Sangin Klein, from South Korea. I was thoroughly blessed to read their life story and to know how the Lord has used the life of this tiny little girl to affect so many and how He taken a very difficult event in their family's life and continues to lead them step by step through their darkest grief attesting to His faithfulness and the truth of our future Heavenly home. I highly recommend this book - you'll be changed by reading of God's grace.
People ARE Watching!
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I am involved locally as a docent in the Marshall Gold Discovery State Park here in Coloma, CA. I went to the Park today and was taking some pictures for our association website (showing activities etc.) so I had a short meeting with the superintendent to go over some ideas. I happened to have my 11 year old daughter with me. For most of the time, she brought some of her schoolwork and sat in the lovely sunshine ready and working on a couple of assignments, but when she grew tired of waiting for Mom, she joined me. Most of my friends at the Park know I am a homeschooling mom, so the Ranger asked me, "So how does this work...homeschooling." He was referring to the fact that my daughter was with me during "school hours" - he wasn't challenging me...just interested!

I told him we had done some of our work in the morning and she brought some studies along in the car and then he said, "Yeah, and this is school too." referring to hanging out in a historical and interpretive park! He's right - Laurel, at age 11, is actually a docent herself and probably knows more about gold rush history than most folks.

Well anyway, it just reminded me that people are watching and they are usually interested in how it all works. Even those who DO challenge the idea and value of home education, if they were honest, would have to admit that learning is not all accomplished in books and often the greater part of it is done "out in the field!"

Why Did You Decide to Homeschool?
People ask me, "Why did you decide to homeschool?"

The Lord put it on my heart when I was expecting our first child and it wasn't even a "thing" yet! I wanted to be the one to see my children learn something new and interesting and watch their eyes sparkle with amazement. I wanted to read to them and go for walks with them and look at bees and flowers!

But as time went on, our reasons were much more spiritual and had deeper biblical roots. We began to understand that it would be better for our children to learn nothing than it would be for them to learn lies. The public school system does teach a religion and that is the religion of humanism and evolution. We also saw so many negative influences children pick up on just by being with ‘foolish’ peers all day!     
The Power of the Cross
When we woke up on Good Friday my husband said, "This is the happiest day of the year!" That seems like an odd thing to say because Good Friday is the day that we remember the Crucifixion of our Lord. The thought of His suffering is sobering and strikes sadness in ones heart, but it was because of His extreme sacrifice that we have any hope. Easter is indeed a glorious day because He rose victorious over the grave - Hallelujah!

Years ago when the movie The Passion came out, my husband and I watched it with tears streaming down our cheeks. It's not a movie you watch for entertainment - it's hard to watch, but it was a vivid (perhaps not completely correct) look into the brutality our Lord suffered and it humbles me - The Cross humbles us. I find that I need to "hang out" near the cross in order to stay in a constant state of gratitude for the grace and forgiveness I have received and for the life I have because of God's love.

The song - The Power of the Cross says it perfectly

Oh, to see the dawn
Of the darkest day:
Christ on the road to Calvary.
Tried by sinful men,
Torn and beaten, then
Nailed to a cross of wood.

Chorus:
This, the power of the cross:
Christ became sin for us
Took the blame, bore the wrath—
We stand forgiven at the cross.

Oh, to see the pain
Written on Your face,
Bearing the awesome weight of sin.
Every bitter thought,
Every evil deed
Crowning Your bloodstained brow.

Now the daylight flees
Now the ground beneath
Quakes as its Maker bows His head.
Curtain torn in two,
Dead are raised to life;
"Finished!" the victory cry.

Oh, to see my name
Written in the wounds,
For through Your suffering I am free.
Death is crushed to death
Life is mine to live,
Won through Your selfless love.

This, the power of the cross:
Son of God—slain for us
What a love! What a cost!

We stand forgiven at the cross.


The Facts are in...Parents ARE influential
alex_and_brett.gifI just returned from the CHEA Convention in Santa Clara, CA., where I had the chance to hear Bret & Alex Harris share how influential parents are in the lives of their kids. Sometimes we think they are not listening, but when the boys poll teens at their Rebelution conferences, the stats ALWAYS report that teens say their parents are the #1 biggest influence and have the most impact on their lives!

Bret & Alex continued to tell the story of how their parents raised them and share different times when they steered them in one direction or another using the term "their fingerprints were all over us". It was truly inspiring for me to have them verify this fact and helps me to continue to be faithful with my children...because it DOES make a difference!





CHEA Convention
My daughter, Anna, and I have been here at the CHEA Convention in Santa Clara, CA for the past couple of days. I got to sit in and listen to Michael Smith from HSLDA and also Mike Farris talk a little about the state of homeschooling in 2011. It's always so encouraging and I am thankful to these men / organizations who go before us and fight for the rights of our families. As I sat in the back of the room, I could see at least 1,000 people seated in front of me...mostly husbands and wives and I was grateful that all these households were being impacted by the sound words these men were speaking on our behalf. Even though it requires some cost and effort, I am always so encouraged by just "being there" at homeschool conventions and events. I want to promp our readers to make the effort to support these events because it will not only encourage your household and keep "your home fires burning", but your attendance helps to encourage others, supports the vendors who are not just out to sell you something, but also come with years of experience and you can learn alot about homeschooling by chatting with them.
Spring is Here
Ah, Spring time is in the air! Here in California we've had rain, rain, rain and I never realized how much the weather can affect my outlook. My husband is a carpenter so he works outdoors a lot and he recently said, "I'm so tired of the rain!" When the sun comes out our attitudes seem to brighten up too.

This past weekend we got outside and swept the walkways, cleaned out the flower beds, pruned bushes...it was great! Our youngest, Laurel, who is eleven even did some spring cleaning in her playhouse. We got everyone outside to pitch in. At first the troops seemed a little hesitant, but they rolled up their sleeves and we all ended up working together and had a nice day.

Now, when I see them "dragging their feet" so to speak, my images.jpgtendency is to go give them the "What For" for having what seemed like unwilling attitudes. Nothing gets my dander up faster because I feel like it is poor character. But even though a word spoken in season can be helpful, sometimes letting them work it out themselves, is what is needed and more beneficial. We can trust them and the Lord to work in their hearts. We don't always have to "point it out". I sensed the Lord urging me to leave the little kittens alone and "they'll come home, wagging their tails behind them"...and that is just what happened. By the end of a couple of hours, they were cheerfully raking and having fun with each other. Another lesson learned by Mom!

Charlotte Mason and Unit Studies
I recently joined an online chat group for Charlotte Mason and after reading several posts I have come to realize that people have the wrong idea about unit studies! Now, I've been homeschooling for a long time and so I am familiar with most teaching methods, and while I don't claim to be an authority on any of them (except The Unit Study Method!), I do know something about what Charlotte Mason taught.
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I went ahead and did a little research to understand more specifically and it seems that many and most of the characteristics of her method is what I've done all these years while teaching via the Unit Study Method! I plan to have an extensive look at this topic as I begin a Unit Study Group on Facebook. Join me there as we jump into tons of fun regarding teaching!
Wow...What a Ride!

"Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!"         

                                             — Hunter S. Thompson


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While I don't ever really have any hope of  "arriving safely in a well preserved body"..some days I think, "Can't I just have a little time for myself?" Today I had one of those days when I had to make a million phone calls (ordering fridge parts, how about the warranty on the TV, and did they ever get approval for the dental work yet?). Then my darling daughter and grandchildren arrived just when I was sitting down to help with school! Soon one needs a snack - the baby needs holding for a minute, my son needs my advice for a graphic for our newsletter, and someone wants to talk to my husband about a trailer he's selling. Yikes, then it's lunch time and the gang wants to know what's for lunch! Are you getting the picture? I finally got a shower about 3:00 and that's when I had that pesky thought "Can I just have a little time for myself?" Wish granted, I was able to take a shower BY MYSELF without anyone banging on the door with a question!


The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD:

and he delights in his way. ... Psalm 37:23


I don't know about the "good man" part, but I know the Lord orders my steps and I am very grateful for every minute of my day! I had the opportunity to attend a ladies conference last weekend where Elyse Fitzpatrick spoke on "Idols of the Heart." Sometimes my desire for peace and quiet can be one of my an idols! I'd rather take the wild ride of life and by God's grace make it to the end saying

                                      "Wow! What a ride!"


Content, until...
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Come,
we invite you to take a peek into our living room and visit us on one of our school days. At times, I've had as many as five students in my "class" but presently, my students are Samuel, our 17 year old son (11th grade), Anna, our 15 year old daughter (10th grade), and the last of our Mohicans, Laurel…our 11 year old (5th grade). Often, Sam works independently in his room on various things as does Anna, but on this particular day I was reading aloud to the girls. It was raining outside and we were all cozying up on the couches continuing on with our study of California History and reading "Two Years Before the Mast". (You might be wondering why a 10th grader is studying California History! Anna got in on our last go around with California History when she was in the 2nd or 3rd grade and so her study was at a much more basic level)

On this day, out of the blue Anna said, “Do I have to study California History?” Now, mind you, we are three quarters of the way through our study and coming around the bend to the Gold Rush…we’re in the final stretch and they have both been enjoying the study, so I was a little baffled by her question! After talking with her a little more, she said “It’s just that I’m so behind!” Behind! Behind what? I realized that she only started feeling this way after she had spent some time with another high school girl and the two of them had been discussing their various studies and schedules. See, Anna had been fairly content with her studies until she saw what somebody else was doing and then suddenly she felt that what she was doing was somehow lacking. Comparing usually always breeds discontent! Moms comparing...kids comparing....not a good idea!



I listened to my daughter’s frustrations to determine areas where she might have valid concerns and then we changed a couple of things in her study plan. Then I reassured her that she’s doing just fine and that she is right where she should be. (Each family has to figure out their own guidelines and goals in order to determine if a student is "right where they should be"- but that is another topic for another blog post!)

We were able to spend some time discussing the issue of contentment. This is another reason I am so grateful for homeschooling for it gives us the opportunity and time to discuss these important issues as they come up. Education is truly much more than learning the 3 R's, isn't it!

But Godliness with Contentment is Great Gain ~
I Timothy 6:6

Rocks - How's That for Science?


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Okay, I'll admit it...I really don't like studying science!
I'm more of a history lover and those who know me,
know this to be true! But,
I have found that any topic
can be interesting when you pick it apart
(pardon the pun on rocks!), divide it
into smaller chunks
(another pun?) and look at it from many angles!


So...we're studying rocks - my eleven year old, Laurel, and I because SHE wanted to. Talk about "delight directed study"! We pulled all the books I own on rocks from the shelf and dug in! Once you get past the millions and billions of years (which she just laughs at!), and then organize your rocks into igneous,
sedimentary, and metamorphic (how exciting is that? Alright, I do have an
attitude problem), it gets pretty fun!


Then, as He always does, the Lord brought me an amazing link to a
site on caves and I just had to share it!

http://www.slideboom.com/presentations/140174/Barlang-Cavernoso


I believe these are the Barlang Cavernoso in Brazil.

These pictures are from National Geographic.

Well, for now, I am going to recline in my chair and start reading Journey to the Center of the Earth (the abridged version...sorry I'm a wimp when it comes to Jules Verne) to my daughter. I will share more on our adventures as we go.

Jennifer Steward

Canning
Yesterday I did my annual canning day. I went to Apple Hill last week and bought a big 40lb box of fuji apples (my favorite). Yesterday I decided I should go ahead and dive into the long task of peeling, cutting, and heating up apples. It is always a long process, so I have to make sure I do it on days when I will be home all day. It was a lot of fun visiting with Kally we worked on the sticky job together. I think we all have certain things we enjoy doing, I think canning is one of mine :) In the past I haven't been very happy with my apple butter because it was not the consistency I wanted it. It always turned out kind of lumpy and not smooth enough. So, the first thing I decided to do was to add more apple juice. That didn't seem to make a huge difference, so I decided to put it into the blender and see if that would help. It seemed to be the key because the apple butter came out GREAT! :)

I'm not sure if any of you like apple butter or have ever had it before, but if you'd like to try it I've included the recipe below.

2 dozen apples
2 quarts of apple juice
>Cut the apples into small slices and put into a big pot, add the apple juice and begin heating on meduim flame. (I added more that two dozen apples because I wanted to make a big batch)
3 cups sugar
3 tsp cinnamon
2 tsp ground cloves
>Add after you have boiled the apples down. After all ingredients are added, blend in a blender. Eat on toast in the morning, yum! :)

God Bless - Brooke
Get Your Hands Info the Study!
We are having a great time studying Ancient China.
This was our topic last month on
The Great Homeschool History Tour
(the history co-op I teach with my sister...
we ARE The HISTerical Sisters ya know!)...
anyway, each month I try to at least go a little
deeper with my kiddos at home.
One of the activities our upper graders did at
co-op was to make salt dough "terra cotta" soldiers.
This was an amazing archaeology find in China in 1974.
This was taught as a "station" so some of the students
got to make their own statue.

(Salt dough recipe: 1 cup flour, 1 cup salt, 1/2 cup water -
we put a tea bag in our water to color the dough a bit).


I was amazed at how well my kids did making their own soldiers. After designing their statues,
we baked them in a 212 F oven for 1 hour then put them onto a baking rack in the oven and baked a
couple more hours! I've posted pictures of their finished projects below along with a photo of
The Terra Cotta Army - a funerary mosoleum
with about 7,500 statues of soldiers!
History Boring? NEVER!

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An "Autumn Day"
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We had a fun "Autumn Day" with the nieces and nephews. We had ate Pumpkin Scones, Wild Rice Soup, and Baked Apples. The kids colored pictures and went on a walk to look for acorns. It was a fun day :) We all love Autumn in our family!
A Busy Summer, A Busy Fall, A Busy Life
This is Brooke. I'm working on a few projects in Steward Ship today and thought it would be good to post on the blog.

This summer was not as hot as some have been in the past. It was a beautiful summer, we had lots of fun times! It passed so quickly, though! I can't believe it will be October in just a few days! How does time pass so quickly?! Our summer was full of lots of things - mom was busy with LOTS of projects - a few of them being: working on a new California History Field trip for HISTerical Sisters as well as starting to edit and prepare the script for our next play: Fiddler on the Roof. I was busy gardening, helping with friend's weddings, and blackberry picking. Kally graduated. Sam worked with Dad. Anna and I played lots of Volleyball and Laurel has enjoyed lots of days of playing with the nieces and nephews. We all did lots of swimming and volleyball this summer which made it extra fun :)

For some reason, I always think that life will start to slow down when Fall comes around. But, for some reason, it never does. We are still busy. I just moved our office down to the warehouse - which is really just a basement. But I guess calling it "The Warehouse" sounds more official :) I am working towards organizing our product, our computer files, and editing Inventory sheets - all the mundane, but necessary, kind of work.

Aaron is gone in Africa (check his blog out for more information: www.AaronKlein.com), so, Cacey brought Spencer and Emma out for the last 5 days. It has been so much fun having them around. Spence and Emma keep us laughing and having Cace here is to have one my best friends stay the night 5 nights in a row! :) Late night talks, teasing, and drinking lots of coffee - it's been fun!

I'd better get back to work, but just wanted to "Hello" :)

Gregg and Sono Harris

Dear Friends of the Harris Family,

I am sending this message to you to let you know of a need. Perhaps you have heard that our dear sister, Sono Harris, is struggling with cancer - and soon to go Home.

The Harris Family hold a special place in our hearts as it is through the ministry of Gregg Harris and Christian Life Workshops....that many years ago, my  husband came to know Christ. Many of you have been influenced, inspired, helped and taught God's principles by this ministry. And many of you who are new to homeschooling may have never even heard of Gregg Harris - one of the key pioneers of the homeschool movement. BUT, even if you've never heard of Gregg and Sono, you probably have heard of their talented children: Joshua Harris (author of I Kissed Dating Good-bye) and Alex and Brett Harris - authors of Do Hard Things and the Rebelution blog.

Sono is my dear friend. I am at a loss to express how deep is my sadness. But I know for certain that God is good and that He never makes mistakes. He WILL be glorified! Sono lived well and has worshipped the King and now she is dying well.

Though this trial is difficult beyond words, they have walked through this with grace and courage. Read Joshs' posts and updates on his blog here.

 I am posting here to ask you to prayerfully give to this family....whether you know them or not, if you are a homeschooling family, we owe a debt of gratitude to their work and their faithfulness. Let us give as we are able. The medical bills are mounting.

Cards and notes can be sent to:

Gregg and Sono Harris and family – 6920 SE Hogan Road, Gresham, OR 97080

You can also donate to Noble Institute, marking the donation Friends of Sono Harris Fund.

Blessings in Christ's Name -

Jennifer Steward

Wild Daisies
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These wild daisies grow on the top of our hill....it's a beautiful blanket of white on our hilltop right now. It is absolutely lovely!
Thankful

Summer is here! We had quite the wet and long Spring, so we are enjoying the warm days now :)

Our days are always full and we have much to be thankful for! Last week our family was busy helping some dear friends of ours prepare for a wedding. Everything turned out beautifully. Jennifer helped coordinate, Kally helped with seating, I, Brooke, was honored to be a bridesmaid, Sam helped with parking. It was a family effort and we were blessed to be a part of it. These were lifelong friends of ours and it was so amazing to witness a wedding where Christ is the center and it is evident the couple's desire is to glorify Him. What a blessing! The bride has been like a sister to me through all these years, which as you can imagine helped to produce lots of joyful tears on the day of. :)

Well, I, Brooke, am busy gardening and trying to stay on top of Steward Ship business. I am very excited to garden this year. I realized this Spring that I have gotten into the habit of being too busy all the time...and don't just have time to think and pray with true sincerity because I usually always thinking about what else I have to do....even when I'm driving. And, I'm only 21 years old. So, I decided I needed to do something that would take time and couldn't just be "checked off" a list. I planted, with the help of sisters, cabbage, broccoli, lettuce, spinach, carrots, turnips, tomatoes, peppers, squash, pumpkin, cucumbers, and wild flowers. Not in one day. It was a process. :) One thing at a time.

 

I have been blessed to have some "dwelling time" while in the garden. A lot of what I have been dwelling on has been lessons a garden has to teach. Like the weeds, for example. They grow so easily and will "take over" if I don't pull them. It's like sin in our lives, it will take over and cause delay and harm to the plants growth, if I don't pull them.

 

Or watering. If I don't water the plants die. If I don't stay in the Word of God slowly it is hard to know truth and to live by it.

 

Or how you need both sun and water, with just one or the other the plant can't survive. It's like how we need both the Holy Spirit and the Holy Bible to help us grow.

 

I have become quite thankful as I have been paying attention to the plants in the garden and as I compare myself to one of those plants I get a new perspective. How grateful I am that God does pay attention to my life and helps me to grow through His Son, His Spirit and His Word of Truth. It is also quite humbling to realize that in and of myself I cannot grow, it is something, Someone much greater than myself that produces growth and fruit in my life. Therefore, when growth and fruit comes forth the glory and credit goes to the gardener and not the plant. I am left with a very thankful heart....for who could ask for more than I have? To work towards accomplishing the task I was created for, there is great joy in that!

 

I hope this finds you all enjoying your summer days and rejoicing that Jesus Christ is alive and His Word is true! How sweet it is to trust in Him!

Busy, busy, busy
Well, as much as we want to, it has been quite hard to keep up with blogging as life seems always to be busy, busy, busy.

Life at the Steward house - Jennifer is working away at school with Anna and Laurel, HISTerical sister (see more information on our website), and painting some walls in our house. Sam, Kally, and Brooke are busy working at Rock-N-Water (dressed up as pioneers in 1854, during the CA gold rush). Jim is busy working. We are all thoroughly enjoying the Spring weather! It has been raining on and off. One moment it will be raining, the next sunny. Isn't it wonderful that God know exactly how much rain the earth needs and provides it for us! How kind and good He is!

I, Brooke, am working on moving Steward Ship and organizing our warehouse and computer files. QUITE a job! It has been an idea for quite awhile and I started putting it into action a week ago but have a little delay because I'm waiting for dad to work on a few things that will enable me to continue. Everything is a process! :) It's a project I am anxious to conquer as it has been constantly on my "to do list" for the last 3 months! I want to do it, and get it done ALL the way! I like projects but especially when I can do them RIGHT and thoroughly! So, that's what I'm hoping for.

Steward Ship will only be going to the SCOPE convention this year (in Sacramento). We don't have any other convention plans for the coming year. I'm hoping that we be able to possibly attend more next year.

After Rock-N-Water ends I'm hoping to have a slow summer. "Hoping" being the key word ;) I am trying to slow down and work and focus on the things that need attention. I'm looking forward to warm days in the garden, summer tea, and evenings on the porch.

So, those are my thoughts for now! I hope to write again soon! Blessings to all!
Just A Mom

I received this story through email and, even though I’ve heard something like it before (as you may also have), I thought it was too good to pass up! Let us remember how our Lord values the eternal investment of motherhood!

JUST A MOM

A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk 's  office, was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation. She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself. “What I mean is,” explained the recorder, “do you have a job or are you just a ...?”

“Of course I have a job,' snapped the woman. “I'm a Mom.”

“We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation, 'housewife' covers it,” said the recorder emphatically. I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, Efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like, 'Official Interrogator' or  “Town Registrar’

“What is your occupation?” she probed.  What made me say it?  I do not know. The words simply popped out. “I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations.” The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as though she had not heard right.

I repeated the title slowly emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written, In bold, black ink on the official questionnaire.

“Might I ask,” said the clerk with new interest, “just what you do in your field?” Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I replied, “I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't) In the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (first the Lord and then the whole family) And already have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) And I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.” There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door. As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 13, 7, and 3.

Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby) in the child development program, Testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than 'just a Mom.' Motherhood - What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on the door. Does this make grandmothers

“Senior Research  Associates” in the field of Child Development and Human Relations'